"Survive’s support for me was vital"

“He often came to my home. Following an operation, the priest took care of me. I was on high doses of medication when he initiated a sexual relationship. He caused me physical harm and on one occasion, he was so rough that he broke my ribs. After being a member of the church for over 60 years, I came to doubt my faith and no longer attend services.

Survive’s support for me was vital because I felt so let down by the church when I reported the priest. I later discovered there had been concerns about him going back to before his ordination. I wish they had put me first, believed me from the start and that I was not made to feel like I didn’t matter.”

 

Names have been changed to protect the identity of the survivor. Images are for illustrative purposes only.

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THE SURVIVOR - JANE

"Survive has given me the skills to work through my memories"

Over time, I learned that every flashback was a signpost to the next memory to work on and my tolerance to the emotional rollercoaster grew.

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THE SURVIVOR - DARREN

“I wouldn’t be here without you”

Towards the end of the work, there were no more flashbacks or trauma symptoms.

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